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Licensed Psychologist, PsyD
Areas I can help you with
- Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory
- BDSM and Kink Dynamics
- Communication and Boundary Setting
- Anxiety and Depression
- Sexual Addictions and Fetishes
- Relationship Conflicts
- Trauma and PTSD
- Stress Management and Self-Discovery
My Process
Individual Therapy
Dr. Mendonsa provides a judgment-free, affirming space for individuals exploring kink, alternative sexualities, and polyamory. Through a collaborative, goal-oriented approach, he helps you unpack any feelings of shame, guilt, or confusion while building self-awareness, healthy boundaries, and emotional resilience. Whether you’re navigating identity, life stressors, or personal growth, Dr. Mendonsa tailors each session to honor your unique experiences and desires, guiding you toward greater self-acceptance and mental well-being.
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For those in nontraditional relationship structures—such as polyamorous, open, or kink-based partnerships—Dr. Mendonsa offers specialized therapy that respects and celebrates diverse relationship dynamics. Working together, you’ll address challenges like communication, trust, emotional intimacy, and boundary-setting. By fostering a safe and transparent dialogue, Dr. Mendonsa helps partners create more fulfilling, balanced connections that honor the individuality and collective goals of everyone involved.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I work with individuals, couples, and those in multi-partner relationships, particularly those practicing or exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, BDSM, and kink. I also provide support for clients facing challenges like sexual addiction, trauma, anxiety, and depression.
Ethical non-monogamy refers to consensual relationship structures where individuals agree to engage in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple people. This includes polyamory, open relationships, and other forms of consensual non-traditional relationship dynamics.
I approach every session with empathy, professionalism, and a nonjudgmental attitude. Whether we’re discussing relationship challenges, fetishes, or trauma, my priority is to make clients feel respected and understood while providing expert guidance tailored to their unique needs.
Absolutely. Clear communication and strong boundaries are essential in any relationship, especially in polyamory or other non-monogamous dynamics. I can guide you in developing skills and strategies to navigate these areas successfully.
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